Business and Relationships

You may have heard this many times before that you need to be careful who you associate with because it will impact your business and your drive to succeed. I want to tell you first hand it is true! It’s not enough to surround yourself with others who share your drive and ambition to succeed but you also have to choose those same qualities in your mate. 

I have dated all types of men, of all races, and in all stations of life. I will tell you that when I am around those who are passionate about their jobs or running a business, it has a trickle down affect. I am pretty ambitious on my own but when around others who are ambitious and focused, I am even better!  Some people will require a lot of your time, create a lot of drama, are self-centered, and would rather you show them attention than make money or do what makes you truly happy.

Here are the warning signs of the people you should avoid:

•  People who call, text, and or e-mail you incessantly
• People are possessive
• People who express their feelings for you too early
• People who don’t have their own place and want to move in with you

These people are trying to get close to you and who want something from you. They are not about how they can enhance your life but how you can enhance theirs. They will say all the right things but having them close to you will only hinder your success. In order to succeed, you need to be around someone with similar values to your own. Anyone else will simply hinder your progress; keep you from being the person you desire to be.

As women it’s only natural to want to help and nurture but trust me, you will be better off getting a pet or volunteering. Don’t put your time into someone that won’t increase your value!